Individual Therapy

You're doing fine. So why doesn't it feel that way?

Many of the people I work with are, by most measures, doing well. They show up, they achieve, they keep it together. And yet there's a persistent undercurrent of anxiety, self-doubt, or a sense that they can never quite let themselves relax.

If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. And you don't have to stay there.

Kate Modica, LCSW, therapist in Charlottesville, VA
Who I work with

You might be here if…

You set high standards for yourself and usually meet them, but the anxiety doesn't go away when you do.
You wonder when people will figure out that you're not as capable as they think, even though the evidence says otherwise.
You have a hard time fully relaxing or letting yourself just be, even when everything is technically fine.
You notice it's easier to give care and support to others than it is to receive it yourself.
Anxiety, self-criticism, or a low hum of worry follows you through the day even when there's no clear reason for it.
You're ready to move beyond managing how you feel and begin the process of deep and lasting change.
My approach

Working through it, not just talking about it.

I use AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy), an approach that works at the level of emotion, not just thought. Rather than analyzing what's hard from the outside, we get curious about what's actually happening inside you, in real time.

AEDP is built on the belief that you have an innate capacity to heal. The work isn't about fixing something broken. It's about removing the barriers that have been getting in the way of that healing. Sometimes those barriers are patterns we learned early, defenses that once made sense but no longer serve us. That process can begin from the very first session. AEDP is an evidence-supported approach, meaning the research backs up what we see in the room.

What I find meaningful about this work is that the people who come to therapy are already moving toward something. That pull toward growth, toward understanding yourself, toward feeling more like yourself, is already alive in you. Our work together is to move beneath those barriers and defenses, to help you get more in touch with who you actually are.

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What I can help with

Areas we might explore together.

People come to therapy for all kinds of reasons. Here are some of the things that often come up in my work with individual clients. If something you're carrying isn't on this list, it's still worth reaching out.

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Anxiety and persistent worry

Perfectionism and imposter syndrome

Depression and low mood

Low self-worth or chronic self-criticism

Grief and loss

Challenges in relationships and loneliness

Getting started

What to expect in the first session.

There's no pressure in our first meeting. My goal is simply to get to know you a little, to understand what's bringing you in and what you're hoping for.

If emotions come up, I welcome them. Those moments often carry the most important information. I'll stay right there with you, attentive to what feels alive and real, without pushing toward any particular agenda.

There's no right way to do a first session. You don't need to have it figured out before you walk in.

We are wired to heal in connection. One of the things that makes this work different is that you don't have to face what's hard alone. That changes everything. Kate Modica, LCSW
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How we meet

In person, online, or both.

I offer sessions in my Charlottesville office and via telehealth. Some clients do one, some do the other, and some do a mix. Both can be genuinely powerful.

In Person

Together in the room.

There's something I value about being physically present with someone. I can notice more. The way you hold your hands, a shift in your posture, the moments when your body says something before your words do. I find real connection in that shared space.

Telehealth

Wherever you are.

Telehealth offers its own kind of closeness. On screen, I often have a clearer view of your face and expression than I do across a room. I've found the work to be effective and meaningful online, and for many clients, it's the more accessible option.

Ready to start feeling better?

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation. We'll talk briefly about what's bringing you in and see if we feel like a good fit.

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